Sean is down to his last 3 girls, and now it's only two... what'a guy to do??

I don't know, it's getting harder and harder to watch The Bachelor... those 'Overnight' trips are soo creepy, it's gross. Right before you 'propose' to your favorite of all the 26 girls, you sleep with a couple of other girls - gross. Yuck. Bleh!!  that's so gross, it's painful to watch.  and then poor old somethingLee... dang, have forgotten her name, already!  Dat not good!  But the one who was 'voted off', last night on The Bachelor... darn it, now I'm trying to remember what names have 'Lee at the end, in a weird kind of way... ASH-Lee - that's it!! hahaha!  That's funy that her name escaped me like that! Oncve they're gone, they're gone.  But AshLee was sooo vulnerable, right from the very start, what with the constant reference back to when she was 5 (not a good sign when you're now in your 30's... it needs to be something you've dealt with, and not used to guilt someone into making a commitment to you, on account o' they have no idea how you'll deal with them not staying.. that's not a good foundation for a marriage... but I was amazed to see what a great body AshLee had - why was that hidden away, before?  And was a fair bit of AshLee's look 'store-bought'? New breasts, at the very least... the whole, "Oh, these??  I just got them, they're brand new!", thing! lol!

I can't understand how The Bachelor STILL has the person who is playing the part of The Bachelor, say how much he is craaazy about all three women, at the end, how he can see himself married to all three of them... seems a good time to move The Bachelor to Utah, join a new religion, see how that works out... maybe they can make some creative new changes, and they ca all wear bikinis instead of the more traditional garb... who knows?? hahaha!  So silly.  But it's nauseating to hear Sean say virtually the same thing to all the women - yuck.  And then get all defensive with the 'she hasn't even said she loves me, yet'... yick.  Iz annoying... hard to watch.  And now, next week, they're giving even more time to the wretched Tierra the Tierrable.... yuck.  Is enough to turn a girl off! hahahahahahaha! Like I'm not gonna watch it! lol!  I'll watch it, but am very thankful for DVR,so I can fast forward during the annoying parts... all the bits with Tierra the Tierrable (okay, you got me, that's my favorite thig to write!  Makes me laugh every time!)

So now Lindsay the 'Substitute Teacher' (really, they can't just let her say she's a full on teacher?? Is that where they draw the line on The Bachelor?? hahaha!) is left, and she seems like the front-runner, if you will, to me - she has the same sort of family Sean seems to crave (that seems like an odd request for a full, intact, family, in this day and age... and unfair to put that on a new partner, like they have anything to do with what choices their parents made,and the massive assumption that all long-term marriages are great - not so, old man, not so... is wonderful when they are great, but is not always the case...), and is a bizarre notion to think any woman is 'less than' if her parents have a different story... very narrow-minded - not a good sign.

And then there's Catherine, who is sooo pretty, what a lovely wee girl she is... and so smart - I like Catherine a lot, but either Catherine or Lindsay would be a good match for Sean - will be interesting to see which girl he 'chooses'.... is hard to even imagine this scenario, to have to choose between a bunch of people, but I suppose this has happened a number of times for me, over the years - there's often the 'good guy' you are supposed to marry, and then the sort of 'bad boy' (again, if you will, lol!), you might really want, but you know is not a good solid choice for a 'real' mate... can be tricky, and maybe when it's on TV, and happening so quickly, AND it's right in front of your face, nothing can be hidden away, maybe that's why it's hard to watch, sometimes... but neither of the girls is a 'bad girl', they're both lovely girls... but I hope to God they don't use AshLee for the next Bachelorette - too crazy... sorry, but just too fragile, and that whole silent thing when she left - hello, that's what Sean would have got if he had ever said or done the wrong thing, no matter how slight, if he had had a real relationship with her... good to know!  I hope she's fine, though - some serious therapy seems like a good idea, all paid for by the show... or at least 6 months worth of Therapy, for free : )

Okay, gotta go make the dinner for me boy - he's 13, now, so a lot of meals for da boy!  Hope you're having a fun day, or night, or fun day leading into a fun night! lol!  Ailsa xox  







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#Stroke #SignsOfAStroke Tongue Trick to See if Someone Has Had a Stroke - Save a Life

I just got this information from my wonderful friend, Kim - I have never heard 

of the tongue thing, before, to have a person you think may have suffered a 

stroke to stick their tongue out - it would normally be straight, so if their 

tongue goes to the side, or appears crooked, get them to the emergency room

 asap. 



I URGE ALL MY FRIENDS TO READ and SHARE THIS; YOU COULD SAVE A

LOVED ONES LIFE BY KNOWING THIS SIMPLE INFORMATION


Stroke has a new indicator! They say if you forward this to ten people, you 

stand a chance of saving one life. Will you send this along? Blood Clots/Stroke - 

They Now Have a Fourth Indicator, the Tongue:


During a BBQ, a woman stumbled and took a little fall - she assured everyone 

that she was fine (they offered to call paramedics) ...she said she had just 

tripped over a brick because of her new shoes.


They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of food. While she appeared a 

bit shaken up, Jane went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening.


Jane's husband called later telling everyone that his wife had been taken to the

hospital - (at 6:00 PM Jane passed away.) She had suffered a stroke at the BBQ.

 Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps Jane would be 

with us today. Some don't die. They end up in a helpless, hopeless condition 

instead.



It only takes a minute to read this.


A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can 

totally reverse the effects of a stroke...totally. He said the trick was getting a 

stroke recognized, diagnosed, and then getting the patient medically cared for 

within 3 hours, which is tough. 



RECOGNIZING A STROKE


Thank God for the sense to remember the '3' steps, STR. Read and

Learn!

Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the

 lack of awareness spells disaster. The stroke victim may suffer severe brain 

damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke.

Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple 

questions:


S *Ask the individual to SMILE.


T *Ask the person to TALK and SPEAK A

SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently)

(i.e. Chicken Soup)


R *Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS.


If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call emergency number

 immediately and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.


New Sign of a Stroke -------- Stick out Your Tongue


NOTE: Another 'sign' of a stroke is this: Ask the person to 'stick' out his tongue.

 If the tongue is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the other that is also an

 indication of a stroke.



A cardiologist says if everyone who gets this e-mail sends it to 10 people; you 

can bet that at least one life will be saved.



I have done my part. Will you?

Sean gives Tierra the boot!! Yahoo, finally!

Last Minute Valentine's Day Gifts - Save up to 85% on Diamond Jewelry + Guaranteed Overnight Delivery Wow, I thought, for a minute, a horrifying minute, that Sean Lowe was actually gonna keep the horrible Tierra the Tierra-ble... gross, I couldn't stand even watching her on TV - ugh.  You would walk away from that kind of horror if you ever, God Forbid, had to deal with someone like that in real life - yuck.  I've had to deal with some lunatics over the years - most people have, especially women, but I don't know, do men have to deal with people like this, too?  Surely these nut-jobs lose it in with their men - I don't believe you can be all lovely with one person, and a total lunatic with someone else ... I suppose it's possible, but very, very unlikely.  Some people really push your buttons, though - the worst offenders (well, not the worst offenders - the very worst ones are the ones who are physically or verbally abusive to you that's the worst, but then there's that lunatic who says horrendous things in a pathetic quiet voice, and then you lose it, because what they are saying is so vile, so reprehensible... man, I guess I have had more than my fair share of Crazy over the years.... yuck!!

 No More Crazy!  Makes me think of Mary J. Blige - remember her song, No More Drama in My Life?  Great song!  They might want to play that at The Rose Ceremony!! hahaha!



 So, thankfully Sean got rid of Tierra, tonight.  I did love that she complained so bitterly about what they were doing on their coveted one-on-one date - hilarious... slightly indicative of a difficult personality.  Certainly, I didn't hear anyone accuse Tierra of being too easy going! hahahaha!  Aah, that really makes me laugh, but wouldn't that have been waay more fun to just play her at her own idiotic game?? haha!  That would really have appealed to me, but when you're in the moment with horrors like that, it's almost impossible to keep your playful side out, you're so busy trying to protect yourself and everyone around the witch... so I'm glad Tierra is gone - but didn't you think she was gonna barge into The Rose Ceremony, tonight?? Like, remember when the little Bachelorette, I've forgotten her name, but she was obsessed with that really bad guy, and he kept coming back on the show?? haha!  God, you think you'll never forget the crazy ones - that's the irony, it's soo much easier to talk about and remember the bad ones, right??  A little quirk of human behavior!

Man, I can't believe Sean didn't choose Lindsay M.  She seemed like the ideal partner for him, so was shocking when Sean sent Lindsay home, and then little Catherine's reaction to that was pretty telling - I really like Catherine, Jimmy Kimmel's pick for Sean to choose as his new wife... oh, and how creepy is it when a woman refers to a guy, let's call him 'Sean', and let's say her name is 'AshLee', but when a woman refers to a guy she's really just met, as 'my husband'??  Yuck!  Here's how you can know when to refer to your guy as your husband - right after the Wedding Ceremony.  See how easy to remember? lol!  So silly.  Just grates on me, is like it's so possessive, too over-reaching, you know?  But I do feel for poor AshLee - it seems like she views herself as wounded, and that's sad.  That's a hard personality to manage, too, since you are often walking on eggshells, they're so sensitive to everything, but not unwarranted, just tricky to manage...

Okay, gotta go watch Jimmy Kimmel, see what he's got to say about The Bachelor! lol!  Love his take on what's happening on that crazy wee show! And next week looks really crazy, what with Desiree's brother going after Sean, and the other Lindsay's dad not having a good reaction to Sean...and then Catherine's sisters not having a good reaction - oh, and I don't really like Sean's obsession with his family, and the families of the girls - you fall in love with your partner, and sometimes the family thing is nightmarish (thus all the articles on How to Get Along with Your In-Laws, Before They Become Your Out-Laws (yes, you got me, I wroted dat one!! hahahaha!  Aaargh, I've had two marriages, and two sets of in-laws... was a lot to deal with, so I think I had to disappear to my home office when I wrote that one! hahaha!)... I'll link the article, just have to find it!

Okay, 'til the next Bachelor!  Happy Valentine's Day!  Remember to do something sooo nice for yourself!! Ailsa xox

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