So how do you talk about a Bachelor show at a time like this? I guess because it gives us a little more hman connection while we're all trying to deal with this, so here goes...
Tonight, they had Ben and Ernesto, Ben Pallon and Ernesto Arguello - a couple of good-looking fellows, to be sure, and a whole slew of gorgeous women... so why so many gorgeous women who are single? Hmmm... I wonder how much the times have changed that women are not getting married early on, and the men who don't appear to have marriage on their minds... has it really changed that much for women, or is the change with the men? These women are soo pretty, and so well put-together... the worst line of the night was the lovely girl who was sent away, first, I think, she said, I've got all the education, and I guess that's not what men want..." Nooo, don't go there! Ladies, don't listen to that... go get whatever education you want and like, become whoever you want to become, a Good Man will come along - don't limit yourself thinking that will bring more men - yuck! What kind of man would that be? A man who can't handle an educated woman?? Gross!! That would move us back a few decades, would be awful... no, we want to be our Best Selves, and let the men be their Best Selves (or whatever love match you would like the mostest, since Love is Love is Love is Love, right??! Yep!), and we'll all find someone great to love - I keeps me fingees crossed for you!! lol!
What's with bringing in the ex-girlfriends?? I don't like that. What's the purpose in that? Makes the whole thing aaaawk-ward! lol! There she is, glaring at all the other girls ... all that Crazy, wrapped up in one little person... and then was it Ben who said he 'needs' to be made crazy?? So unhealthy... there's a Drama King, right there... hmmm, Good Luck, Ladies, with this one...
And then there's Ernesto, who is in his 30's, right? And has never, ever, told a woman he loves her - who else sees a giant Red Flag, there?? hahaha! Hmmm, begs a few questions, don't it?? Are you thinking the same questions I am?? lol! Whatevs, let's say he really is looking for a wife, how did he get to his 30s, and has never fallen for anyone, or is there phenomenal fear in saying I love you? That's not tough to say, soooo, me wonders about this one... but he sure is handsome, so we'll forget all the Red Flags, and get on with the show! hahaha!
I love the bitchy girls - what is that all about? How horrible... and then the wallflowers really break me up, on National Television - Oh, I was sooo gonna say something... hmmmm, yeah, go on and say something... when they were doing some construction, which you know is near and dear to my heart (www.buildyourownhouse.ca - my main site! lol!), and the two girls are working on installing the flooring, and needed specific measurements for the flooring, and the mean girl all mad about that... bleh! Why so many mean girls? Wonder what they get out of being so mean? Do they actually reap any rewards from that? I've definitely known lots of men who actually go for that - ugh. That's nauseating to me - if they're gonna be mean to everyone else, they're gonna be mean to your children - and that's not okay. It's hardly even female, to me... yuck. Just be nice and kind.... but that's what I like... hahaha! I canny stand da meannies! They horrible! I avoid them wherever I can, makes my life sooo much better!
What do you think of the format, letting the Matchmakers make the final cuts? Weird. What was that male matchmaker saying about what men want? I know it irritated me when he was saying it - and did I really hear one of the matchmakers say, get out there and make an impression, don't be yourself... was that possible?? Dammit, was that when I was checking out my Easter Basket to see what's left in it for late-night treats?? hahaha! Well, to be sure, Be Yourself... why even bother not being yourself?? Who has that kind of time to fake crap? Either you like him or you don't, and either he likes you or he don't (okay, I couldn't resist keeping with the 'don't' - hahaha! All my English Teacher's be groanin', right now! hahaha!) (doesn't - feel better? lol!) So silly.
And the poor little Virgin Girl - she knows what she's doing, she's got a good head on her shoulders, and she'll make all the right decisions for herself - I liked the whole thing of being open to a relationship, but not the way they went about it - she clearly knows who she is, and is comfortable with that... and that guy won't respect that - he sure seems like a player to me... she needs a Real Man. Just a really young one... but I do know a lot of people who started their marriages as virgins - was the way it was for a long, long time, but some of them really struggled with their relationships, because they were virgins because they were so closed off, so I think that's where the matchmaker was coming from on that one...
Sooo, next week, they have all three of the guys, and they're down to, what is it? 4 million girls?? haha! I like the shows where there are more people involved, in equal numbers, so people can really get to know each other... maybe they could meet at a bar, like in da old days?? hahaha! Just seems overly contrived, and how do you find love like that? Oh, and before I forget, I thought it was soo funny when the Pilates Studio Owner had to tell Ben she's not his Mom! hahahahaha! Hilarious! Not a good sign on a first date! Hello, Red Flag!
Okay, have a good week. Love is right around the corner. What's for ye'll no go by ye'.... (my favourite Scottish saying - has gotten me through the worst of times... and maybe you'll find some comfort in it, too : ) Ailsa xox!
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